Those who are getting married must ask the Lord to pour into their hearts divine pure and spiritual love for, each other, which does not depend upon physical attraction, earthly, possessions and worldly qualifications. Such a love must be an inward experience and it is a gift of God. In Eph. 5:25 the Lord says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it". This Exhortation is repeated in verses 28 and 33. How did the Lord love us? We had no fortune and no qualification; we had grieved Him and wounded Him, yet He loved each one of us and gave His body to be broken for us. He loved us so much because He is our Creator.